The meme: answers
Oct. 24th, 2009 12:26 amHow do you pronounce your name and those of your daughters?
"Ailbhe," "Emer," and "Linnea."
Or ALv[uh], EEMurr, and LinNAYah.
What's your absolute top number one favourite outfit?
Does not compute. What's my favourite colour? What's my favourite book? Who is my favourite person? What's my favourite food? I don't think I'm really a favourite kind of liker.
I choose what to wear based partially on what feels good, partially on what expresses good feelings, and partially on not getting laughed at in the street. That last may well be the smallest part.
Would you tell the Ailbhe and Rob love story in poem form?
I doubt it. Would you really like me to?
With the damage done to you after Linnea's birth, is sex still enjoyable for you?
Yes. Working without much genital sensation adds the odd challenge, and the loss of clitoral sensation sometimes makes me cry, but yes, sex can still be enjoyable.
Thank you for the phrasing; much of the long-term damage was indeed done after she was out, and phrasing it that way makes me not in the least inclined to wonder whether you blame her in any way. (Lots of people refer to it as "what she did to [me].")
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Date: 2009-10-29 11:35 pm (UTC)