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Crossposted to [livejournal.com profile] plan_survive

I asked on a midwifery mailing list for recommendations of books with detailed information on c-sections. Most of the people on this list know my history, but someone who obviously didn't has emailed me to say "Have you considered a vaginal birth instead? Don't you know it's safer for mother and baby in more than 95% of cases?"

Before I could stop myself I answered with a big list of all my excuses for not having a vaginal birth this time.

And every single one felt like an excuse, not a reason, as I wrote it.

Is this normal? Am I the only person who tries to assume that people are doing what they are doing because it's the best option available to them, rather than because they're feckless idiots who can't be arsed to do things The Right Way? I know I don't always succeed in that assumption, but I try to.

I feel squashed. And guilty again, and I'm sick of feeling guilty about Linnea's birth. It's 9 days to her second birthday. *sulk*

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Date: 2006-04-21 08:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] buzzy-bee.livejournal.com
OK, I think I know who it was and god help her if I am ever sitting in the same room with her again. Grrrrrrrrr.

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Date: 2006-04-21 08:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] buzzy-bee.livejournal.com
Double barrelled last name, first name starts with a D?

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