So what do you think?

[ailbhe]

I've heard this sentiment a few times in the recent past - say the past six months or so:

"If she didn't want to be woken up by sex, she should have told him so before."

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[nosgirl.livejournal.com]

Sometimes I don't think it is so much a matter of "he thought it would be fun" as a misunderstanding. I've woken up my boyfriend several times with foreplay because I thought he was awake due to things he was doing in his sleep (like taking my hand and sticking it down his boxers, etc.). Likewise, I've been woken up in the same manner, I woke them up by doing things in my sleep that made them think I was awake. Though, if the other person is adverse to it, it should stop as soon as the displeasure is made known.