So what do you think?

[ailbhe]

I've heard this sentiment a few times in the recent past - say the past six months or so:

"If she didn't want to be woken up by sex, she should have told him so before."

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[rosefox]

If X wants to make any sexual foray not previously explored or discussed, X should ask Y what Y thinks of the idea before trying it out, unless X and Y already have a policy in place that it's okay to try new things without prior discussion.