So what do you think?

[ailbhe]

I've heard this sentiment a few times in the recent past - say the past six months or so:

"If she didn't want to be woken up by sex, she should have told him so before."

Comments

[kalmn.livejournal.com]

if the "she" in question is a female roommate, being woken up by noisy sex in the next bedroom over, then okay.

if the she in question is a female participant, then i think that a) yes, they should have discussed it before with him bringing it up if he thought this sounded like fun to him, and b) i could probably forgive a guy trying that with me once as long as he stopped once i hit him and told him to (i am, um, not at my politest first thing in the am) and never tried it again and apologized a lot. oh, and he'd have to mention that he was wrong and he should have discussed it with me first.