It is unutterably delicious to see them with each other. Emer helps Linnea hold the mayonnaise jar. Linnea helps Emer cut pieces of a magazine. They make sandwiches together or for each other. They bicker, and resolve things, and resume affectionate interactions.
I don't remember getting on well with my sisters at all, as a small child - and family lore tells that we didn't; the older three did up to a point but myself and my younger sister were pitted against each other by familial roles and operated on a playmates-who-loathe-each-other principle for about 15 years.
My children appear to have a relationship so far outside that I can't imagine how they feel. But it's beautiful.
I don't remember getting on well with my sisters at all, as a small child - and family lore tells that we didn't; the older three did up to a point but myself and my younger sister were pitted against each other by familial roles and operated on a playmates-who-loathe-each-other principle for about 15 years.
My children appear to have a relationship so far outside that I can't imagine how they feel. But it's beautiful.
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Date: 2009-07-29 12:06 pm (UTC)My sister and I fought like tigers all the time we lived at home together. It must have been horrible for our Mum.
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Date: 2009-07-30 06:19 am (UTC)Linnea and Emer, on the other hand, are closer in age, and you've worked hard at helping them become close friends. I think it also helps that they have very different personalities.