Just a reminder

[ailbhe]

If the children say to my face that they don't want me any more and they want Rob to come home instead, it means they are confident and secure in my attachment to them.

Even if they hit me while they do it.

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[ailbhe]

My mother used to take great pleasure in responding spitefully to toddlers who said "I HATE YOU."

She'd say, "Well I love you." She didn't need to add the "So there." It was in her tone.