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(Just for reference: the drama is over, the person has apologised, but I'm still shaking, so here we go...)

Wanting not to be mentally ill does not cure mental illness. It's probably essential to being cured, but that makes it a necessary condition of cure, not sufficient to cure the illness of itself. Very, very few people with mental illnesses (broad, outdated category that it is) are enjoying themselves most of the time. That's what the "illness" part means.

So take your "just use willpower" and write a self-help book with it. Who knows, you could make millions.

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Date: 2008-09-17 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sam-t.livejournal.com
Gnyargh. Yes.

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Date: 2008-09-17 04:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cat63.livejournal.com
Wanting not to be mentally ill does not cure mental illness.

Of course it doesn't. Any more than you can cure appendicitis by willpower. Gah.

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Date: 2008-09-17 05:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shinydan.livejournal.com
Couldn't agree more with all of it. Dealing with fallout from a related issue, so this was a very helpful post. *HUGS* and thank you.

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Date: 2008-09-17 05:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] browngirl.livejournal.com
Well and truly said, my friend. Well and truly said.

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Date: 2008-09-17 05:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sidheag.livejournal.com
Err. Yes!

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Date: 2008-09-17 05:37 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] barakta
YES!

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Date: 2008-09-17 05:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] k425.livejournal.com
When I were a nurse I did my stint at the Psych unit. One of the patients was an ex-nurse who said at one point that she felt it was her come-uppance for having spent her own nursing career wondering why on earth people with depression didn't just pull themselves together. (Of course, when she was feeling better she knew that it didn't work like that, but she couldn't hold on to that when she was ill.)

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Date: 2008-09-17 06:10 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] k425.livejournal.com
It made me a hell of a lot more sympathetic, I can tell you.

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Date: 2008-09-17 06:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] divulge.livejournal.com
Agreed. I'm glad the drama is over.

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Date: 2008-09-17 06:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sinboy.livejournal.com
If they don't make millions with the book, it's because they didn't want to.

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Date: 2008-09-17 06:39 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] pauamma
*growl*

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Date: 2008-09-17 06:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cherade9.livejournal.com
What you said!

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Date: 2008-09-17 08:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] perceval.livejournal.com
This is one of the reasons I became disillusioned with New Age medicine. Replete with that sort of thinking. And really dangerous, too.

Realising you have a problem and wanting to get better helps, but it won't get you back on the road without good support.

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Date: 2008-09-18 11:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trizia.livejournal.com
So true.

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Date: 2008-09-18 11:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kyte.livejournal.com
Absolutely.

If wanting and trying to be different was all that mattered, then most of us would be paragons of success and virtue.

Unfortunately, it's not like that.

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Date: 2008-09-20 01:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] baratron.livejournal.com
I tried to cure myself by simply "wanting to be better", and thus declaring myself cured. Gods know, I tried.

Sadly, if you're still wanting to get better and wondering whether you still have mental illness, you probably do. You're only cured when you realise you haven't even remembered that you had the illness in weeks.

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Date: 2008-09-20 11:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cabbagemedley.livejournal.com
Yeah. I just freaking love being dizzy with fear from the moment I wake up to the moment I fall asleep. It's a blast. Why would I ever want to be well?

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Date: 2008-09-22 04:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cassandre.livejournal.com
Yes. Yes, yes. Few things make me as livid as the 'just pull yourself together' mentality.

Unfortunately, mental illness is very hard to understand for people who have never had to struggle with it.

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