I'm sorry you had someone email you to bug you about your decision. Please don't feel bad for what you HAVE to do. You are doing the right thing and don't second guess yourself :)
I'm having one but it's not for the same exact reasons as you. I mean I didn't have any severe damage like you suffered. My baby was just plain too big the first time and she wasn't going to fit. There wasn't a way to get her out unless I had a cs. I feel like a loser for planning another one, but I'm so afraid of going through the whole labor process to find out, yup this one is too big also.
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Date: 2006-04-22 06:56 am (UTC)I'm having one but it's not for the same exact reasons as you. I mean I didn't have any severe damage like you suffered. My baby was just plain too big the first time and she wasn't going to fit. There wasn't a way to get her out unless I had a cs. I feel like a loser for planning another one, but I'm so afraid of going through the whole labor process to find out, yup this one is too big also.