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Dear Lego

I have been playing with Lego since approximately 1980. I have three children, and their other parent has been playing with Lego since approximately 1976. The children inherited our Lego, and we enthusiastically bought new sets for them - Duplo buckets, mixed bricks, City sets, minifigs in packets. Visiting LegoLand is an enormous treat, slightly more exciting than going to the moon in real life.

But the increasingly aggressive sidelining of girls from the mainstream of Lego customers means that I have, in spite of the heartwrenching regret it causes me, decided not to buy any new Lego products until girls are again considered as real customers and included in the huge majority of Lego products and magazines and Club literature.

Girls are people too, and boys and girls both need to know that this is true.

As soon as Lego shows it thinks that I and my children are real people, I will once again buy, with enthusiasm, from the vast, gender-neutral, enthralling selection of building toys you have to offer. For my children.

And my sisters' children.

And our friends' children.

And occasionally for ourselves, because there's no reason people over 30 shouldn't have any fun.

Yours, as part of the 51% of the global population which is female,

Ailbhe Leamy

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Date: 2012-01-17 04:34 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] serene
I adore you.

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Date: 2012-01-17 06:20 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] birke
Go you.

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Date: 2012-01-17 01:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tiggsybabes.livejournal.com
Kate saw an advert for the new pink range & declared that it wasn't lego & that she didn't want any. She is happily building a tardis console from a lego equivalent which is marketed for boys. I had no idea that girls didn't watch Dr Who.

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Date: 2012-01-17 01:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snorkel-maiden.livejournal.com
Brilliant letter. I may have to write a similar one. And I'm sorry they made you cry.

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Date: 2012-01-17 01:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] snorkel-maiden.livejournal.com
It is! Leo's too young for the time being but I really, really don't want him growing up in a pink / blue world. Why is this worse now than 30 years ago? My Dad bought me lego and meccano and all that stuff. None of it was pink and my barbies used to build cranes from the meccano.

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Date: 2012-01-17 06:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sidheag.livejournal.com
Maybe you could just decide to only buy it from ebay, so that they don't get any more money from you doing so? The objection has to be to supporting the company that currently has such a bad attitude, not to the actual buying part?

[Confession: I don't think I ever have bought any lego new, though C has had some bought by other people!]

I agree!

Date: 2012-01-17 01:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] carly fuller (from livejournal.com)
I wrote a similar letter this week after my daughter received her latest Lego Club magazine. I was so angry about it - we have a variety of Lego, either buckets, or sets, or games - either bought new or passed down from me and my husband. I don't understand at what point Lego became "boys" and "girls" Lego.

My daughter read the new magazine, and asked where the puzzles were. Where the building instructions were. Because, although she's female, she's not stupid and can follow instructions and doesn't want to play with dolls or figures constantly. We went to the website and downloaded the instructions to build the panda toothbrush holder instead ;)

Ridiculous. I am waiting for my response from Lego - I emailed them 3 days ago. I can't wait to start reading responses.

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Date: 2012-01-17 02:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] velcro-kitten.livejournal.com
Have just written on their website, that 'girls' mag is horrible.

"I wish to cancel my children's subscriptions to Lego Club. Their names are L & P. I have become increasingly disturbed by the gender division promoted in your products. Lego has gone from being a universally appealing building and imagination product to a company that appears to market it's toys along narrow gender lines, first with it's emphasis on 'cops and robbers' aimed squarely at boys and now with it's regressive 'Friends' range for girls.

I am not the only parent who feels alienated by this shift from a once trusted firm. I do hope you can rethink this strategy and realise how backwards it is.

We do hope to enjoy Lego in the future, if this situation is resolved.
Regards, M"

Sund okay?

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Date: 2012-01-17 02:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nicnacpaddywac.livejournal.com
Fantastic, i need to grab time to do similar, as well as displaying my rage and disappointment at their Lego club brochures - C got the Lego club jnr, i got the "girl" one. Seriously *not* impressed!

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Date: 2012-01-18 01:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] k425.livejournal.com
You get a choice, you know. You can have the 'girl' magazine or the 'regular' mag. Because girls aren't regular.

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Date: 2012-01-17 03:07 pm (UTC)
From: [personal profile] eniel
I was incensed last week, when browsing their online shop, to find that "Girls" was now a category, along with Keychains, Building Accessories or Robotics. Funny, there doesn't seem to be a "Boys" category...

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Date: 2012-01-17 03:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] leedy.livejournal.com
*applauds*

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Date: 2012-01-17 05:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cyan-blue.livejournal.com
Excellent letter.

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Date: 2012-01-18 01:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tassie-gal.livejournal.com
You rock....

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Date: 2012-01-18 02:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] trinker.livejournal.com
You made me cry, too. My children don't have enough Lego to inherit, but I'm pondering carefully what I'm going to do about this.

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Date: 2012-01-18 06:04 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mecmom.livejournal.com
Ailbhe -
may I have permission to post a link to this page to facebook, where I have lots of cousins and others who are new parents of baby girls and are just starting to see these things and worry about them?

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Date: 2012-01-18 12:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] browngirl.livejournal.com
This is well, beautifully, and *heartwrenchingly* said. May I write a post about it on [livejournal.com profile] shakydismount?

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Date: 2012-01-22 05:11 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rubynye.livejournal.com
It's a reference to the US TV show "Buffy the Vampire Slayer". Her mother at one point uses an extended metaphor of a gymnastics routine to describe parenting, saying she did well at various things but was "shaky on the dismount".

(IIRC.)

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Date: 2012-01-18 07:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gloriap.livejournal.com
Well done. A. For many years I have also disliked the movie/pop culture related Legos (Star Wars, Harry Potter, etc.) Even my kids, now 36 and 41, noticed early on that once you have built the monster space ship, pirate ship, etc. the pieces are so specialized that they don't lend themselves well to building anything else. A great quality for selling more Lego sets, but it doesn't do much for creativity.

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