Please stop beating yourself up for not hearing Emer. You are a fantastic mother, and an inspiration to me (and a lot of others, from reading comments over the years).
You took steps to try to hear her crying, and they didn't work, and she was very unhappy. But: they were reasonable steps, you couldn't know in advance they wouldn't work, but you do know now; she didn't come to any physical harm; and I'm sure that as soon as you found her you comforted and reassured her as much as possible.
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Date: 2007-04-10 02:19 pm (UTC)You took steps to try to hear her crying, and they didn't work, and she was very unhappy. But: they were reasonable steps, you couldn't know in advance they wouldn't work, but you do know now; she didn't come to any physical harm; and I'm sure that as soon as you found her you comforted and reassured her as much as possible.