Oh, birthday! My girl who is three!
Aug. 15th, 2009 10:16 pmWe had a party. We made a birthday in Emer's house!

Four two-to-three-year-olds arrived, bringing one, two, two and one parents each, two small babies, and one five-year-old for Linnea's amusement. Each guest family brought a card - looked at, but largely ignored - and a present - opened and played with, except the little wormery, which I need to set up properly, with worms we have on hand - a big jar of worms to look at, with stuff!
The children played briefly, while we laid the table. Then I had the five-year-olds make up the party bags for the younger ones. Then they were called to the table, about eleven o'clock, and had popcorn, breadrolls (mainly ignored), cherry tomatoes (almost totally ignored), flapjacks and cake. After food they milled around and then played pass the parcel, milled around some more, collected party bags and left. It all took closer to two and a half hours than the scheduled one and a half, but it was calm and pleasant overall, no meltdowns, tea and coffee for parents, all calm and good.
We all sang "Happy Birthday To You" to Emer. She was a filmstar or a minor Head of State. She blew gently towards her candles but didn't really even want to try to blow them out; she asked me to help.
We took a birthdaying break then and went to the big slingmeet, which was brilliant and busy and involved a lot of outdoor play with wheeled ride-on toys on a steep slope.
After that we had Mary to dinner; Emer was tired and overbirthdayed, so didn't want to eat, but did open her present and card and eventually agreed to come to table and ate rather a lot, so that worked well. We lit the candles in the remains of the cake and all sang again; this time, Emer was so excited that she covered her face in her hands and rested her head on the table, and quivered.
And that wasn't all - neighbours from over the road came and brought a card - Emer was terribly disappointed! They didn't bring a present! They were very sorry. She went to her bedroom to recover and we thought fast; I found one of Linnea's gifts - an art set of pencils, pastels and paints which we hadn't opened yet due to our usual overstock of art materials - and they wrapped it quickly. Emer came downstairs and asked Rob, "Maybe they can pa-tend they bing a peasant." Success! She opened it, knowing they hadn't brought it, and was delighted; Linnea and Emer played enthusiastically with it while the neighbour-three-year-old nipped out to the garden to daub himself in khaki poster paints repeatedly.
We sent them away with two lurid green cupcakes in a box.
Linnea and Emer then had a bath and went to bed, in stages, with winding-down DVD-watching.
Tomorrow, Rob's parents and sister arrive, for the extended-family party.
Whew.
Four two-to-three-year-olds arrived, bringing one, two, two and one parents each, two small babies, and one five-year-old for Linnea's amusement. Each guest family brought a card - looked at, but largely ignored - and a present - opened and played with, except the little wormery, which I need to set up properly, with worms we have on hand - a big jar of worms to look at, with stuff!
The children played briefly, while we laid the table. Then I had the five-year-olds make up the party bags for the younger ones. Then they were called to the table, about eleven o'clock, and had popcorn, breadrolls (mainly ignored), cherry tomatoes (almost totally ignored), flapjacks and cake. After food they milled around and then played pass the parcel, milled around some more, collected party bags and left. It all took closer to two and a half hours than the scheduled one and a half, but it was calm and pleasant overall, no meltdowns, tea and coffee for parents, all calm and good.
We all sang "Happy Birthday To You" to Emer. She was a filmstar or a minor Head of State. She blew gently towards her candles but didn't really even want to try to blow them out; she asked me to help.
We took a birthdaying break then and went to the big slingmeet, which was brilliant and busy and involved a lot of outdoor play with wheeled ride-on toys on a steep slope.
After that we had Mary to dinner; Emer was tired and overbirthdayed, so didn't want to eat, but did open her present and card and eventually agreed to come to table and ate rather a lot, so that worked well. We lit the candles in the remains of the cake and all sang again; this time, Emer was so excited that she covered her face in her hands and rested her head on the table, and quivered.
And that wasn't all - neighbours from over the road came and brought a card - Emer was terribly disappointed! They didn't bring a present! They were very sorry. She went to her bedroom to recover and we thought fast; I found one of Linnea's gifts - an art set of pencils, pastels and paints which we hadn't opened yet due to our usual overstock of art materials - and they wrapped it quickly. Emer came downstairs and asked Rob, "Maybe they can pa-tend they bing a peasant." Success! She opened it, knowing they hadn't brought it, and was delighted; Linnea and Emer played enthusiastically with it while the neighbour-three-year-old nipped out to the garden to daub himself in khaki poster paints repeatedly.
We sent them away with two lurid green cupcakes in a box.
Linnea and Emer then had a bath and went to bed, in stages, with winding-down DVD-watching.
Tomorrow, Rob's parents and sister arrive, for the extended-family party.
Whew.
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Date: 2009-08-16 02:37 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-08-15 09:42 pm (UTC)Cake looks great, though.
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Date: 2009-08-15 09:50 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-08-15 09:42 pm (UTC)this time, Emer was so excited that she covered her face in her hands and rested her head on the table, and quivered.
That particular sentence had me grinning from ear to ear. I do like your children so very much, you paint beautiful word-pictures of them both.
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Date: 2009-08-16 01:09 pm (UTC)Happy birthday, big 3-year-old girl!
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Date: 2009-08-15 09:43 pm (UTC)Sounds like a lovely (if tiring) day.
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Date: 2009-08-15 10:21 pm (UTC)Sounds wonderful; I'm so glad it worked well.
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Date: 2009-08-15 10:26 pm (UTC)(no subject)
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Date: 2009-08-16 08:56 am (UTC)I love the cake and it sounds like a lovely birthday, if exhausting.
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Date: 2009-08-16 06:13 pm (UTC)