I ought to be in bed, but I'm here drinking port. I have that appointment with the colo-rectal specialist tomorrow, and a bunch of people on livejournal are attacking me for having raised Linnea according to her individual needs rather than according to international childcrea guidelines.
I am trying to stay out of it, since I don't actually need to justify myself to them, and I do know I did the right thing, but it's hard.