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Hmm, in your case I suspect you'd get pushed about from pillar to post - i.e. whether it's a physical problem or a mental one. DSM-IV only applies to the latter: I have no idea what the criteria are for diagnosing a physiological problem with female sexual response, nor where to look it up. Nor, unfortunately, whether anything can be done about it in either eventuality. :-/