I had an abortion many years ago. I never told my parents because I know their values and beliefs. I have slightly different beliefs. I don't think they would love me any less. I think they would have worked very hard to accept my decision but... I chose not to tell them because I felt it was my personal decision and it was hard enough for me, I didn't wish to "spread the pain around" for lack of a better explanation.

I love my parents and know that they love me and always will but... as the daughter and the mother, know that no matter how you try, they will make their own choices and you can't blame yourself if it disagrees with what you feel they should do. Just my two cents.