Poor you, but at least now it reinforces what you knew.

In laws. Nagging. Why do they do that? There's nothing so special about dairy products that you and Linnea can't obtain from other foods, so long as you're careful.

My youngest daughter used to be violently sick (projectile vomiting across the room) with dairy products. She can now tolerate small amounts occurring in other foods, but I still avoid giving her anything milk related.

I never thought at the time about whether my diet when breastfeeding affected her. Possibly, as she always was sick a great deal, but then I eat very few dairy products (and no, my bones haven't crumbled, nor my teeth fallen out).

Hope you're feeling better soon.