My daughter is very girly and very active. I've never had any adverse comment on it (unless you count the chap who objected to her crawling under his table at coffee, but I think that was a personal space issue, and he withdrew the objection when he realised she was younger than he had thought).

Mind you, perhaps I've given less opportunity for anyone to object - I don't allow running around in restaurants, for instance, regardless of gender. I do allow it in plenty of other public spaces, though.