If dh weren't so selfish, I honestly think we could get by with just his job with me maybe working very part time on weekends, completely bypassing childcare entirely. But frankly, I'm NOT a good homemaker, our sitter ADORES our kid, and dh simply won't give up whatever it is that takes up more of his income than I can figure. So, it's not a pretty situation, but it works for us.

Pregnancy and the kid's youth are my passes for insomnia; all the years I couldn't sleep before were just practice.