oh god. this happened in Penticton when we had just moved there 5 years ago. it's just as awful to hear of it again now, it was exactly the same story. parents told not to disturb things. i don't think i would have been able to go 4 hours without looking to see how it was, but if I had been dealing with an authoritarian doctor, who knows?

those poor parents. because you can be sure they are blaming themselves, not the doctors.